My father is literally a dictator?

im no expert in this area but i do know that this is abusive behavior. You should definatly call someone or go to someone you trust for help. If i was in your position I would probably either go talk to my school guidance councellor or call the kids help line. Talk to your mom first and tell her what's bothering you what she says should help you decide on what you should do. I realy hope this helps! Good Luck!! <3