Is he over me? im gettin mixed signals.?

ok so me(18) and my boyfriend(19) have been super tight for like 4 months. he bought me a 157 dollar ring and everything. well recently we got into a fight and i called the cops over some dumb **** and he accidently got taken to jail for domesitc assualt or whatever. but really he didnt deserve it. that was 4 days ago. well he lives with his uncle and his uncle says if hes seen talking to me then he has to apck his ****. well my bf is sayin we need to take a break and iv been tryin my damnist to get him back and i know i shouldnt have. like he invited to ride with him and one of our friends like 45 mins away today and i went and seen a text in his phone that said come see me gorgeous to a girl i dont like. shes not pretttier then me and she has a boyfriend but he says he was tryin to get a free ride which i kinda understand cuz without me he dont have a car. and i know he loves me alot but i think hes done foreal and just says he still cares cuz if he cared then he wouldnt have said gorgeous to another girl. i know hes probably tryin his damnist not to get kicked out and keep his mind off me and **** but damn. and when i seen it all he did was keep bringin up what i did wrong to make us to break up like he didnt even fill guilty he just said im taking it to far. he didnt even say sorry. when i said i was done foreal he acted hurt and pissed where he shook his leg real fast and on the ride home he kept trying to like touch my arm and i jerked away. twice. now he thinks im trying to anything just to turn the blame of the break up off me. he said him touching my arm was a way of sayin sorry. i know he loves me but should i just quit texting and callin him and just leave him alone for a few days or until after court which is in exactly a week. my brain tells me to chill with talkin to him so much and just go with the flow and do my own thing but my heart misses him so much. we use to hang 24/7 and now he cant even see me. his mom gets out of jail in 22 days and shes movin here from florida and he says it will be different when she gets here he just dont wanna get kicked out but what should i do. just leave him alone and do my own thing? or what? i need some advice i know he still loves me he gave me 20 dollars and some cigs the night before to get on my feet. but its just not how it use to be and its killin me..i dont want him to have sex or be with anybody els. cuz i havent been, ya know?